tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34708145987891373962024-03-07T02:51:48.788-05:00Melissa Taylor"Wherever your treasure is, there your heart and thoughts will also be." Matthew 6:21, NLTMelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.comBlogger149125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-83248474182379663222009-11-13T13:09:00.002-05:002009-11-13T13:22:54.431-05:00Time for a ChangeThis will be my last post here. Why you ask? Because I have a beautiful new blog!!! If you've been visiting either of my blogs, www.MelissaTaylorP31.blogspot.com or BeautifulP31.blogspot.com, I thank you for your comments, sharing of stories, encouragement, prayers, and friendship. I hope you'll continue to follow me at my new blog with a NEW ADDRESS. I'll be writing a lot more, hosting contests, give aways, encouraging you, and sharing other valuable information regularly. And every now and then I might just dish about one of my Proverbs 31 sisters!<div><br /></div><div>MY NEW WEBSITE/BLOG ADDRESS IS:<div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">www.MelissaTaylor.org</span></b></i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">www.MelissaTaylor.org</span></b></i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><b><i>www.MelissaTaylor.org</i></b></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><b><i>www.MelissaTaylor.org</i></b></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><b><i>www.MelissaTaylor.org</i></b></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><b><i>www.MelissaTaylor.org</i></b></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><b><i><br /></i></b></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Think you got it? Well what are you waiting for? Go visit my beautiful new blog NOW!!!</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Big Hugs,</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">Melissa</span></i></b></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><b><i><br /></i></b></span></div></div>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com61tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-10772571617224498182009-10-20T20:59:00.004-04:002009-10-20T22:50:16.326-04:00Hey Y'all!I have been so out of commission lately. Life hit hard. It always does though! I used to think it was just seasonal, but now I'm convinced that it's just life as I know it!!!!<div><br /></div><div>So, my Greensboro friends from Grace Community Church, we have a winner. Dorothy Lanier, you are the winner from that event!!! Email me at Melissa@MelissaTaylor.org so I can get your contact info and send you your prize :) Everyone else who has commented on my blog, email me your information and I will send you My Top 10 Ways to Stay Connected With God. </div><div><br /></div><div>Southside ladies....are you there???? I miss y'all terribly! Comment here and I'll send you something too. Just be sure to send me your email address! Seriously, I'm coming to your retreat next year! Wendy Bruce, I haven't forgotten about you! I'm praying for you every day. Let's get in touch. Email me!!!!</div><div><br /></div><div>Today has been awesome and filling, yet exhausting and depleting at the same time. I am the Prayer Coordinator for Proverbs 31 Ministries. We received over 500 requests today. This is a result of Glynnis Whitwer's amazing devotion that ran today. I am thrilled that so many felt comfortable and safe enough to let Proverbs 31 join them in prayer. We have such a great prayer team. I mean they really care about each and every prayer request that comes through. But I am also saddened. The requests today revealed lonely, sad, lost, hopeless, and even a few suicidal people who need unconditional love and support. Breaks my heart because I want to jump through the computer and hug and love on those sending the requests. "God loves you!!!!!" I want to yell. "You are so special to Him!!!!!" I want to say.</div><div><br /></div><div>If you have any words for those who are hurting and unable to see God's hand in their life, please comment here. I will pass it on. </div><div><br /></div><div>And you Grace or Southside ladies, let me hear from you too. Dorothy and Wendy...we need to touch base.</div><div><br /></div><div>Love You All!</div><div><br /></div><div><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">Melissa</span></b></i></div>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-6930798863104177382009-10-12T00:16:00.003-04:002009-10-12T00:34:25.137-04:00Southside Ladies RetreatI honestly don't think I have enough space to write all that I'd like to. It's very late right now, after midnight in fact. <div><br /></div><div>I got home about an hour and a half ago. I spoke at a women's retreat in Fredericksburg, VA all weekend long. It was emotional, draining, exhausting, wild, fun, and amazing. Seriously, I am in awe of what God did. </div><div><br /></div><div>First, He showed up personally for the ladies there. I witnessed so many personal connections and it brings me to tears of joy. I witnessed obstacles and walls breaking down in women's lives. I witnessed surrender. I witnessed revelations. All by God, for God. Yes, the ladies claimed freedom in Christ as we defeated the pirates in our lives and took hold of the treasure, God's Truth. Words cannot describe how I feel right now. Just really thankful and I give the Lord every bit of credit. I was empty and exhausted. Seriously, if y'all knew the week I had prior to this retreat, you'd understand. I had NOTHING to give. But God did. And He did. I love Him so much.</div><div><br /></div><div>Also, this retreat served as a HUGE confirmation for me. I was doubting my calling as a speaker. I'm not like many speakers. I'm really more of a sharer of faith. I love the Lord so much I can't keep it in. Give me a weekend with a group of ladies and I explode with passion for giving your life to Christ and becoming His best friend, and relying on Him each and every day to walk with you and get your through life. I do believe it is all possible with God. I live it every day. Not always perfectly. In fact not anywhere near. But it is my relationship with the Lord that gives me the strength and desire to keep going despite my circumstances. I am nothing without Him. But I can be anything with Him. Because He does it for me. He did that this weekend in a super ultra big way.</div><div><br /></div><div>Southside ladies, if you read this, THANK YOU for allowing God to speak to you this weekend. You all were open to hear from Him and you listened. I am seriously blown away by the stories you've shared with me how He met you this weekend. Lives were changed and I praise God for that. </div><div><br /></div><div>Plus, the retreat was just fun. These ladies were wild and crazy. Yes, wild and crazy for Jesus! I'd tell you more about it, but what happens in Fredericksburg, stays in Fredericksburg, so if you want to find out, you'll just have to attend next year's retreat when Proverbs 31's, Sharon Glasgow will be their speaker.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Blessings and Lots of Love,</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">Melissa</span></b></i></div>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com22tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-18551773007330366112009-09-26T05:41:00.003-04:002009-10-07T09:40:24.312-04:00Charm, Beauty, Fear<div style="text-align: left;"><b><i>****Edit, October 7, 2009....</i></b></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: small; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 18px; ">Ladies of Grace Comm Church in Greensboro,<br /><br />I'm drawing today. I received emails, blog posts, and phone messages. I have your names and I'll draw and let you know who won. Also send me your email addresses!!! Send to Melissa@MelissaTaylor.org and I'll send you my 10 Ways to be closer to God :)<br /><br />Blessings Y'all!</span></i></b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><i><br /></i></b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><i><br /></i></b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-size:large;">"Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised."</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Proverbs 31:30 (NIV)</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">What does it mean to be a woman who fears the Lord?</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I want to hear what you have to say, and I'll be back later to give you my thoughts on this.</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Blessings,</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">Melissa</span></b></i></div>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-53219757378710102582009-09-24T21:22:00.005-04:002009-09-24T22:20:16.706-04:00Faith Confession #6Yesterday I posted one of my church's 12 Faith Confessions. Today, I'll post another. #6.<div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;font-size:11px;"><h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" ft="{"type":"msg"}" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-weight: normal; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; font-size:13px;"><span class="UIStory_Message"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">"I have no insecurity because I see myself the way God sees me." </span></span></h3><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:georgia, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;font-size:medium;">I posted this statement on my FaceBook and Twitter pages today. The comments I received were interesting to me. Here they are:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;font-size:11px;"><div class="comment_text"><div id="text_expose_id_4abc1a556838c2d46802938" class="comment_actual_text" style="display: inline; padding-left: 0.4em; ">Words to strive for ;)</div></div><div class="comment_actions" style="color: rgb(119, 119, 119); padding-top: 2px; "><br /></div><div class="comment_actions" style="color: rgb(119, 119, 119); padding-top: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); ">I agree. I'm working on faith and believing God. Not as easy as you think it might be. I have trust issues.</span></div><div class="comment_actions" style="color: rgb(119, 119, 119); padding-top: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><br /></span></div><div class="comment_actions" style="color: rgb(119, 119, 119); padding-top: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><div class="comment_text"><div id="text_expose_id_4abc1a55692b39805241886" class="comment_actual_text" style="display: inline; padding-left: 0.4em; ">That preaches good but not so easy to live.</div></div><div class="comment_text"><br /></div><div class="comment_text"><br /></div><div class="comment_text"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Why is it so hard to believe this? I'll tell you why. </span></div><div class="comment_text"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div class="comment_text"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">We are human. Insecurity began the minute sin entered the picture. And ever since, we have struggled with feeling secure and good about ourselves.</span></div><div class="comment_text"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div class="comment_text"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Just like the woman said in the comment above, It's not easy to live. I recite the confession. I know it can be true. But not because of me. Only because of Christ in me. Melissa is not secure. Melissa does not see herself in high esteem. But God sees me differently. And I believe God. So for that reason, I have no insecurity. I do see myself the way God sees me. (or at least I keep telling myself that!)</span></div><div class="comment_text"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div class="comment_text"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Ladies, we have to make a change. We can't live our lives thinking and talking ourselves down. Thinking ourselves inferior to others. Comparing ourselves. I do it too. I know it's hard. But we should believe like God. </span></div><div class="comment_text"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div class="comment_text"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">So, repeat after me...</span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:-webkit-xxx-large;"><h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-weight: normal; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; font-size:13px;"><span class="UIStory_Message"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:medium;">"I have no insecurity because I see myself the way God sees me." and now say it again...."I have no insecurity because I see myself the way God sees me." And when you don't feel it, that's okay. You know the truth. Remember that feelings are fickle. But God isn't. </span></span></h3><h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-weight: normal; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; font-size:13px;"><br /></h3><h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" ft="{"type":"msg"}" size="13px" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-weight: normal; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; "><span class="UIStory_Message"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:medium;"> Be blessed,</span></span></h3><div><i>Melissa</i></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></span></span></div><div class="comment_actions" style="color: rgb(119, 119, 119); padding-top: 2px; "><br /></div><div class="comment_actions" style="color: rgb(119, 119, 119); padding-top: 2px; "><br /></div><div class="comment_actions" style="color: rgb(119, 119, 119); padding-top: 2px; "><br /></div><div class="comment_actions" style="color: rgb(119, 119, 119); padding-top: 2px; "><br /></div><div class="comment_actions" style="color: rgb(119, 119, 119); padding-top: 2px; "><br /></div></span></span></span></div></span></div>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-12355695728044577682009-09-23T20:54:00.003-04:002009-09-24T21:22:38.024-04:00Faith Confession #1Our church has 12 Faith Confessions. Every now and then I'll be sharing them here. <div><br /></div><div>The first one means everything to me. Here it is:</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"> "I am fully forgiven and free from all shame and condemnation."</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;font-size:100%;color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:13px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Isn't that the best news you could ever get???? It is for me.</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Unfortunately, I have much in my life that could easily bring me shame and condemnation. And at one time I let it. But then I entered into a new relationship. With Jesus.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I learned that there is NO CONDEMNATION in Christ Jesus. (Romans 8:1) and that I am forgiven totally (Psalm 32:1-5). </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Are you able to live free? Or are you held captive by something you've done in the past?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Repeat after me. "I am fully forgiven and free from all shame and condemnation." In Jesus' Name.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Shame-less,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">Melissa</span></b></i></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-4626528820087662412009-09-14T21:55:00.003-04:002009-09-14T23:51:36.948-04:00People Watching is Interesting to MeBut what I don't like about people watching is that too often I begin to judge the people I'm watching. Like I have the right. I don't.<div><br /></div><div>I'm going to highlight some biggies here. Kanye West and Michael Vick. </div><div><br /></div><div>On first glance, I can jump right in with the crowd. Michael Vick....what a loser, killing animals, making them fight. He totally doesn't deserve a second chance. And Kanye, interrupting my daughter's very favorite singer, Taylor Swift. Stealing a special moment from her like that. What a loser. Let's just charge them now. Guilty. If you aren't sure what I'm talking about, just Google Michael Vick or Kanye West.</div><div><br /></div><div>I've heard what many have said. According to most, these 2 are scum, don't deserve a second chance. </div><div><br /></div><div>While it's easy to jump on these bandwagons....it's even easy to agree with the crowd. I mean there are clear justifiable reasons. However, I dare you. I dare you to take God's approach.</div><div><br /></div><div>Please don't bash me for this. But I have to wonder, is what they did forgivable in the eyes of the Lord? Well, yes it is. Because there is nothing unforgivable to Him. I mean we have to really mean it, but God can and will forgive when we really mean it. And who are we to decide how someone should be punished?</div><div><br /></div><div>I am one of the few who are rooting for Michael Vick. He says that he is a changed man because of the Lord Jesus Christ. I want that to be true. Why wouldn't I? God knows all, and it's not up to me to decide it. I so hope he is a changed man. What a difference he will make in the kingdom of God if that's the case. It's not up to me or you to decide if he's a good guy or not. Plus, I can relate to Michael Vick. No, I've never arranged fights between dogs, but I have sinned. I've sinned bad and big time. I pray that God believes in me. There are others who may not believe me, but my main concern is that God does. That's all that truly matters to me. He and I know the truth. Who else has the right to judge? My value is determined by Him not my previous actions. Humans aren't so forgiving. I've learned that. But God is.</div><div><br /></div><div>And about Kanye West....I'm one of the few who probably feel a little sorry for him. I love Taylor Swift. Hayley Grace and I listen to Taylor all the time. She's America's sweetheart. He was hateful to her last night. I didn't watch the Mtv Video Music Awards last night. When Britney and Madonna french kissed 7 years ago, I decided not to watch that again. But I awoke to the drama. It was on all the morning shows, FaceBook, Twitter, etc. And immediately I thought, "Oh great. Another celebrity drama that is going to take over the media. Instead of hearing about quality news, we will hear about this." And I was right.</div><div><br /></div><div>I decided to tune into to The Jay Leno Show tonight on NBC. Kanye West was a guest on there. He was quiet. He did not look up. He was shamed. He seemed to be on the verge of tears. He couldn't even answer a question about what his late mother would've thought about his behavior. I suspect he is questioning himself, "What was I thinking?" "What made me do that?" I'm sure he has major regrets. But maybe just maybe it is the regrets that could make him a changed man? Right? If that's what it takes....</div><div><br /></div><div>Have you ever asked yourself those questions? I bet you did. Only the entire world wasn't fixated you while you did it.</div><div><br /></div><div>My point here is that it's real easy for us to judge others. It's easy when a camera or spotlight is on someone else to join the world in siding against them. I don't know about you, but I'm real glad that there is not a camera following me. </div><div><br /></div><div>I am not justifying what these men have done. Not at all. We all do have the right to judge their actions. What they did was wrong. But we do not have the right to judge what's in their hearts. If we do, then we are saying that God is not capable of healing and changing someone. God is. And it's best if we stay out of His way.</div><div><br /></div><div>That's all I'm sayin. </div><div><br /></div><div>Our God is a God of second chances. And aren't you thankful for that? I know I am.</div><div><br /></div><div>I'll leave all this up to Him. </div><div><br /></div><div>Let me know your thoughts....</div><div><br /></div><div>Love,</div><div><br /></div><div><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">Melissa</span></b></i></div>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-65389202194335243442009-09-11T20:52:00.002-04:002009-09-11T23:56:14.792-04:00A girl works works works, then...gets the flu too.<div><br /></div><div>Yep, after a week of taking care of my family, I too fell prey to the swine. (Just to clarify, only one of the kids was officially diagnosed with the H1N1 virus...the doctor said there was no need to test. Just same symptoms.) This week our family has also encountered a UTI (I can't tell you who has that bc they say "it's embarrassing Mom!" , major asthma flair up requiring extra breathing treatments, and many a cough, earache, high fever, and sore throat.</div><div><br /></div><div>Early this afternoon I proclaimed, "It's cold in here isn't it?" And I heard, "I'm not cold" "Me either" </div><div>To which I thought, "Oh no." </div><div><br /></div><div>And I was right. The reason I was cold was because I had a fever. The sickness that I had worked so hard to make everyone else feel better about had finally found it's way to me. And I'm ok with that.</div><div><br /></div><div>If you read yesterday's post, then you know that I was able to find Treasure in the Illness (es) of my family. Now it's time for me to find the treasure in my own.</div><div><br /></div><div>Could it be I need to slow down?</div><div>Could it be I need to be able to empathize with those who are sick?</div><div>Could it be that I wasn't supposed to go away for a girl's weekend with my Bible Study group but stay home with my family?</div><div><br /></div><div>Who knows? (Well, God does.) But whatever the reason, I trust that there is a reason for it. I'm just thankful that I was the last to get it and not the first. I was given the gift of caring for my family without having to worry about me. Now they are in the healing stage and I can just crash. </div><div><br /></div><div>This has been a hard week for many reasons. I am a little down about my Mom. (I may comment on this at another time or I may not.) I am faced with new challenges in my speaking and writing. My family has needed me beyond the usual. I've missed work all week and I need the hours. But let me tell you the blessings....</div><div><br /></div><div>I trust God to take care of Mom. That's hard for me, but I have to do it. In speaking and writing, or another way of putting it...my calling in ministry....I am being challenged to step it up. That's all I'll say about that. I struggle on some days to feel worthy of the calling and I rise to the occasion on some days knowing I am capable because of the Lord. But only because of Him. My kids have needed me so much this week. Seeing my strong boys so weak has taken me aback. I cherish the fact that they need me, but I hurt seeing them feel so bad. And my office work. I miss my friends at the office. I miss my work at the office. I need the hours. But home has called. And I'm called here before anywhere else.</div><div><br /></div><div>So this girl has worked worked worked. And I was to be rewarded this weekend. My Bible study group is taking an annual girl's weekend trip to the lake. I've been looking forward to this all week. Yesterday I made the call to stay home. I knew my family needed me. Little did I know that I'd be the one who was sick! Mary Beth, Julie, LaGena, Amy, and Michelle...girls have a blast! I wish I was there with you! Play, laugh, relax, and enjoy the gift of each other. I'll catch up with you next Friday at Bible Study. I was so looking forward to this weekend with you. I hope and pray you all are having a great time together. But selfishly I hope not too much fun!</div><div><br /></div><div>Thankfully it is the weekend. I got to watch my favorite show tonight (Monk). And tomorrow there is college football. If I have to be sick and stuck at home, then at least it's football season. The Gators play at 12 and the Gamecocks play at 6:30. :) And the Panthers play Sunday. :)</div><div><br /></div><div>No matter what, I am reminded of what the Lord says. Reminded by a friend, 1 Peter 5:6-11. And girlfriend who sent that to me, I am holding that closer than you know.</div><div><br /></div><div>Hangin in there,</div><div><br /></div><div><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">Melissa</span></b></i></div>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-77609960412809367922009-09-10T18:07:00.006-04:002009-09-10T23:42:08.459-04:00Treasure in the IllnessI am looking around my house today. In 1 room lies a 16 year old boy. He's typically healthy and rarely misses school. Today he is down and out. 102 fever. Cough. Sore Throat. Earache. Just feels rotten. He's 16, but he needs his mama :)<div><br /></div><div>In the den there are 2 couches. On one lies a 14 year old boy. He has been down and out since Monday. He's been to the doctor twice due to high fever, 104, and breathing trouble. Coughing a lot. This was supposed to be his first week of football practice. He hasn't been able to join his team yet. Too sick. On the other couch lies a 12 year old boy. He is down and out. While I was attending a PTA Open House last night, he texted me and let me know he had a fever of 101. He is sick and coughing also. Both of these big boys also need their mama :)</div><div><br /></div><div>Truly, that is the one thing I like about them being sick. Their need for me. It brings back memories of the many sick days we had during the preschool years. We used to be in the doctor's office all the time it seemed. I was forever wiping a nose, rocking a sick child, administering medication, attending appointments, reading up on the latest remedies or health issues, and occasionally even being sent to the hospital. (6 different times I recall going from the pediatrician's office straight to the hospital) My life was consumed with being a Mom. Hands on all the way. My boys have grown up so, their need for me is not as obvious. But oh when they are sick...all they want is their mama.</div><div><br /></div><div>And our time together has been so sweet. Hayden and I have talked so much this week. He has been the sickest so far and out of school all week. While I would never wish this flu on him again, I cherish the time and conversations we've had this week. Priceless. Now don't get me wrong. I'm not glad my boys are sick. But I have found treasures hidden in their illness.</div><div><br /></div><div>Hayley Grace, their 8 year old sister...she is not down and out. Although she was. For 2 days she had a cough. She got over it quickly. She has cried everyday this week because she wanted the swine flu so she could stay home too! Go figure! </div><div><br /></div><div>I'm praying that our family will be back to good health very soon. I'm also praying I don't get it! If the past repeats itself, I'll spend this week caring for them and then get it! (Hoping that doesn't happen! I feel fine so far!)</div><div><br /></div><div>Hoping and praying that you are your family are staying well!</div><div><br /></div><div>Hugs,</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">Melissa</span></span></span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-20943121171131965922009-09-03T18:25:00.002-04:002009-09-03T18:47:22.997-04:00Change is scary and hard and challenging...But real good! I've been working on some new "stuff"...you know what stuff is right? You know, stuff. Well in this case stuff is what I'm workin on! Am I making any sense? Forgive my silliness!<br /><br />Really, I have been challenged lately in ministry. It is time to step it up a notch, take some risks, devote more time, and really pursue excellence. This requires some changes and also some unchartered territory for me. I am putting myself in a position to be evaluated, critiqued, chewed up and spat out, all for Jesus :) And I'm serious about that. I truly want to give my best so that Jesus shines. For that reason, I want to keep growing and learning. And for that reason I'm taking the next few months to devote to intense study, training, refining, and growth...all closer to the heart of God. I'm excited and nervous, but also so thankful for the opportunities ahead. God is good and with Him I'm traveling this sometimes bumpy road.<br /><br />With all that said, I'll still keep blogging, writing, speaking, working, etc. In fact, you should see some major changes in this blog in the next few weeks. Finally after almost 2 years of blogging I'm actually getting a design :) Oooohhhh, impressive. LOL! I think I'm the last person in the world to do this!<br /><br />Well, it's a big day here at the Taylor house. College football starts today! It's my favorite time of year. And my team plays tonight on ESPN. Join me in yelling, "Go Gamecocks!"<br /><br />Hey, have you had a challenge in your life that you were a little scared about, but also excited? How did you proceed without being nervous or listening to the wrong voice? Please share if you want to.<br /><br />All for now, it's Game Time!<br /><br />Love,<br /><br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-13456875845341254242009-08-27T21:05:00.003-04:002009-08-28T09:24:27.588-04:00Word to LifeIf I never do anything else, I pray with all my heart that I can bring God's Word to life. For myself, for my family, for my friends, and for anyone else that I have the opportunity to share with. Yes, that would be it. My one desire: to bring God's Word to life.<br /><br />How?<br /><br />That's what I ask myself. And there are so many correct answers.<br /><br />I've led Bible studies. In these studies it was my main objective to bring God's Word to life so that those in the study could feel and apply God's Word in their everyday life.<br /><br />I've been a speaker at retreats and conferences. No matter what the message or topic, my main goal was to bring God's Word to life so that the women in attendance would go home thirsting for the Word of God with the desire to apply it to their lives everyday.<br /><br />I answer the phone at Proverbs 31 Ministries. Many times it is people asking for prayer. I often don't have the answers they are looking for, but I always point them back to the Word of God. I may not have advice or answers, but I do have Scripture that never fails. And when I share it, it sticks. It gives hope. It promises to never fail. When I have nothing to offer, the Word of God gives life.<br /><br />My kids are searching for their way in life. I don't have much to offer them, but I do have God's Word. And unfortunately they may roll their eyes at me. But I know that His Word will not return void. And so, I keep offering it. One day they will thank me. I'm blessed. Today one of them thanked me :)<br /><br />My husband....he's a great husband. But he still doesn't meet my every need. Because God's Word has taught me how to love, whether Jeff meets my needs or not, I know how to give him love. Not because I posess it, but because God within me does. I read His Word. His Word manifests within me. And I am able to love whether I feel like it or not. And just for the record, today I felt like it. I am so in love with my husband!<br /><br />Today I am struggling to discern the best way to bring God's Word to life. There is so much I want to do. But there is also so much that I have to do. Ministry is important to me, but that can be done in many different ways. I am asking God to define that for me. And I am torn. I want to be in the smack dab center of God's will. And His will alone.<br /><br />How do you bring God's Word to life? What does that mean to you?<br /><br />Love,<br /><br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-6516329212152033552009-08-13T05:00:00.000-04:002009-08-13T05:00:06.057-04:00Study the BibleIs there a book you are interested in studying? A book of the Bible? A book that leads you to the Bible? Like a topical book? On marriage? A closer walk with God? Watching what you say? Your thoughts? Being the woman God created you to be? Lies? Truth? <br /><br />Please share if you have thoughts on this.<br /><br />thanks :)<br /><br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com59tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-32849364772782711512009-08-10T05:00:00.000-04:002009-08-10T05:00:02.268-04:00Give me your thoughts on this quote:"Yet often God yearns for us to ask His help; instead, we also look for the aid of human agents."<br /><br /><br />Is this true for you? <br /><br /><br />Please Share,<br /><br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Meliss</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-38929860987809095252009-08-08T05:00:00.000-04:002009-08-08T05:00:01.174-04:00Comment on this quote:"Although we suffer the consequences of our actions, God will remain faithful."MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-36425266789407278372009-08-05T19:43:00.000-04:002009-08-05T20:11:50.548-04:00Hodge Podge and Mish MashOver the next month you will hopefully see some positive changes in my blog(s). I'm not going to go into any details, but I will say I'm really excited about it. So, if you visit here ever at all, just hang with me. I'm in the process of gaining some normalcy to my life and implementing some ideas I've had in my head for a long time. I just didn't have the means to move forward. Now I do.<br /><br />As many of you have read on other blogs, She Speaks was amazing. I don't think I could say it any better than that. Today, the P31 office had a "She Speaks Debriefing Meeting" where we reviewed 3 categories of She Speaks. 1. Pre She Speaks 2. During She Speaks 3. Post She Speaks We discussed what worked and what we need to improve on for next year. This year's conference was pretty close to excellent. Let me just say that next year's will be even better.<br /><br />My Mom is still home and continues to recover. Thank you for your prayers.<br /><br />Jeff, the kids, and I will be leaving Saturday for Florida. We have a Disney vacation planned. This could not come at a better time for me. This summer has been hard on our family. This getaway to a literal "fantasy" land is a welcome retreat. I have missed Jeff and the kids so much. I have spent more than half of this summer away from them because I was caring for my mother and then I had She Speaks. Blake turns 16 while we will be at Disney. For his birthday, he and I are taking the behind the scenes tour of the Magic Kingdom. I think I'm more excited about this than he is! I will not be blogging while I'm away, but I will post a question to ponder each day I'm gone. I'll also be tweeting and facebooking live from WDW.<br /><br />Yesterday I received a prayer request at the office from a pastor's wife whose husband is addicted to pornography. He stopped for a while, but she recently found out he was "not looking at porn" but looking at women in their bras and panties, bathing suits, etc. Anyway, they weren't his wife. She feels defeated and useless to him. And she is hurting. This is just one request. We get so many similar to this. It breaks my heart. We have a fabulous prayer team, but could always use more. If you are interested in being on the P31 prayer team, let me know. It's a big commitment, but if you have a heart for prayer and are looking for ways to get involved in Proverbs 31 Ministries, we could definitely use you. Get in touch with me if you are interested.<br /><br />I realize this post was a hodge podge and mish mash of stuff, but that's how I am these days. Hodge podge and mish mash....LOL.<br /><br />Love to you and yours,<br /><br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-88226574685623671632009-07-29T07:36:00.002-04:002009-07-29T07:49:34.358-04:00P31's Annual She Speaks ConferenceShe Speaks begins for me TODAY!!!! And it couldn't come at a better time! The week of this conference fuels me. Even though I usually leave the conference exhausted physically and mentally and emotionally, I am filled to overflowing spiritually.<br /><br />Our Speaker Team meets today. Many of us haven't seen each other in over a year. We have training, team time, and business during the day for the next 2 days before the conference actually begins, but our nights are relatively free with plenty of built in time for fun and bonding. Usually way too many laughs and late nights!<br /><br />The Conference will begin Friday morning. I begin Friday as a P31 Staff member working the crazy registration area. I end Friday and work the remainder to of the conference as a Speaker Team Member. The session I'm teaching is Saturday afternoon and I'm evaluating a beginners speaking group. Truly I say, the evaluation group is my favorite part. I love being a part of encouraging these women to go after their dreams. It is a joy and delight for me. <br /><br />This conference is going to be fabulous. Many great sessions, speakers, writers, publishers, and we even have Cheri Keaggy doing our music this year and Jennifer Rothschild speaking Saturday night. Wow!<br /><br />To keep you updated, I'll try to blog, but I'll definitely be "tweetin'" from the conference all week long. The tweets (from Twitter) appear in the left hand column of this blog. You can also join in on the Twitter, by signing up at <a href="http://www.twitter.com/">www.Twitter.com</a> . Many of our speakers and even Proverbs 31 have started twittering during the day to keep up with each other. It's seems silly, but it's fun. <br /><br />I have said a prayer for anyone who reads this today. May your days be blessed and may you experience the joy of the Lord greatly in your life!<br /><br />Love and big hugs,<br /><br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em><br /><br />***Sharon Sloan if you read this, I will miss your OTC hug this year ;)MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-90648751884367147982009-07-27T23:25:00.002-04:002009-07-28T00:06:30.606-04:00Mom is HomeI posted on Mom's CaringBridge site tonight. Here is the post:<br />__________________________________________________________________<br /><br />Hi Everyone. It's Monday evening. This has been my first opportunity to write. I'm home for the first time in a while.<br /><br />As you know, Mom came home to her house in Rock Hill, SC last Friday, July 24th. It was a celebration. A real homecoming in the waiting. After 38 days in the hospital, 4 surgeries, numerous procedures, and many doctors, Mom came home. I honestly don't think the 5th floor of CMC knows what to do without her!<br /><br />While returning home, has been a good thing, honestly, it's also been a hard thing. All those things we used to press the red call button and have the nurse do...well guess what? She doesn't come any more. Mom rings a bell (a lot) and whoever is "on call" (either me or Bud this last weekend) come to do whatever is needed. And that has been more than I ever thought myself capable to do. Wow. Procedures I used to have to leave the room for because of my weak stomach, I am now doing myself. Bud and I went through a crash course of Wound Care, Dressing Changes, Ostomy Bag Changes, Treating infection, Assisiting a patient in using a walker, etc etc etc. I actually think I could be a nurse now. :)<br /><br />Mom is doing ok. She's glad to be home. She's walking around with the help of a walker a few times a day. But she is also frustrated and feeling defeated. Everything is such an effort for her.<br /><br />If you can give her a call, please do. Often when she's on the phone or occupied with a visit she forgets the pain she's in or what she's going through.<br /><br />I had to leave Mom tonight. I have a big conference that I'm working this week and weekend. Jeff's Mom, Pat, is going to be with Mom the next 2 days. Buddy's daughter, Michele will be helping out a few days also. And then Mom's sister, Gloria is coming next Sunday for a few days. And of course Bud is there most of the time. We've learned it's a full time job. Caring for Mom, cooking, cleaning, keeping up with the billing and prescriptions and appointments, etc.<br /><br /> A home health care nurse also comes out a few times a week.<br /><br />Thank you so much for your continued love and support. I for one don't think I could do this without it. You all have carried me. And I read your comments to Mom and it lets her know that she is not forgotten. She misses life as she knows it. Your comments let her know that life is going on and she is a part of it.<br /><br />I'm not sure when this will updated again. I'll try to get the "helpers" to update during the week, but who knows. I'll be back next week sometime.<br /><br />Much Love From Becky,<br />Melissa<br /><br />___________________________________________________________________<br />That was my CaringBridge update. Mom is home.<br /><br />This has been such a hard week. I'm trying to get geared up for She Speaks. Usually She Speaks has occupied my every thought. Only this year, it has paled in comparison to what I've been dealing with in real life. It's just as important. But I trust that God will handle every detail of the conference....even my session on Saturday. He is capable of that, right? Of course!<br /><br />It's been rather comical. My email has revealed nervous speakers and attendees to the conference. And I understand. However, in comparison, I've just trusted God to handle what I couldn't, which was the She Speaks Conference. I know for a fact that He will take care of it all.<br /><br />This conference will undoubtably be the best ever. I know because it gets better and better each year. I believe that Satan would like for me to be distracted by what's going on with my Mom. but I'm not. I have learned to trust Him more than ever. <br /><br />I'm home now. For the first time in a week. I've missed my husband and my kids. And I miss Mom tonight, but I'm so happy to be home tonight. And I know God is taking care of her. How silly of me to think that I was the only one capable of taking care of her. :)<br /><br />Good Night Friends,<br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-29697719914461147122009-07-20T20:47:00.002-04:002009-07-20T21:31:43.308-04:00FreedomGalatians 5:1- It is for <strong>free</strong>dom that Christ has set us free. <strong>Stand firm</strong>, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened <strong>again</strong> by a yoke of slavery.<br /><br /><strong>Free</strong>- Yes, Christ has set us free. He did this by His own death. It was the toughest and most painful of sacrifices, yet He considered us worth it. And he did it, so that we would experience freedom. The opposite of freedom is captivity or bondage. If we feel held against our will, then we are not experiencing the freedom that Christ intended.<br /><br />This was me for many years. I've been captive to people, relationships, feelings, food, exercise, perfection, lonliness, positions/roles, and my own thoughts. It has taken (and still takes) a constant effort and reminder to myself that I am no longer a slave to such things. Jesus is my Master and I am free. Not guilty. Not condemned. Not needing anything or anyone else to complete me. <br /><br />Often people fight for freedom. We don't have to. The battle was won for us. Christ did it all.<br /><br /><strong>Stand firm</strong>- This tells me that Paul, who wrote this verse, is saying that we can't just relax. We have to stand firm. Stand firm...on solid ground, not waivering, holding on tight so we won't easily be blown over or down. Standing firm takes effort and it means we must take a stand and stick with it. Make a decision and never look back. <br /><br /><strong>Again</strong>- The fact that Paul says, "Do not let yourselves be burdened <strong>again</strong> by a yoke of slavery" tells me that we will be burdened (or attempted to be burdened) <strong>again</strong> by the same things. The same strongholds that Satan had over us are going to be the same ones he uses again and again to get to us. That's why we were just told to <strong>stand firm</strong>! <br /><br />I hope you are encouraged by this verse. I've decided to go back through "Breaking Free" by Beth Moore again and use it in my quiet time for the rest of the summer. This verse was in the introduction and I have used it all day long in making decisions and reminding myself of my amazing freedom in Christ! I take it for granted too much. I turn to other means for comfort too much. This is not right. It makes me a slave to whatever I turn to. I don't want any part of that. <br /><br /><em>It is for freedom that</em> <em>I am free in Christ. I will stand firm then, and I won't let myself be burdened again by a yoke of slavery!</em><br /><em></em><br />Christ gave up everything for me and you. Let's stand firm and make Him glad He did!<br /><br />Sweet Love in Christ,<br /><br /><em><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong>Melissa</strong></span></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-83713118614173026792009-07-16T20:53:00.002-04:002009-07-16T21:50:22.103-04:00Finally, a breakdown!I've been doing really good. Even though life around me has been out of control, I really have been at peace. In fact, I couldn't even figure out how I've kept it so together.<br /><br />My mom was in Surgical Trauma ICU for 3 days. My dad got married without much notice. I wasn't even invited to the wedding. Blake got contacts. Hayden got his braces off. Dylan is still having ear trouble and seeing a specialist. I still work every day. I still spend every other night in the hospital. I miss my family. Jeff has either a groin pull or a hernea. I miss my husband. We are super busy at the office getting ready for She Speaks, a conference which I am heavily involved for 5 days at the end of the month. With that said, I've been taking it one moment at a time. Sleeping has been light. I fall asleep, I awake. I'm real tired. And truth be told, I'm worried about my Mom. She's been in the hospital for 4 weeks. <br /><br />I guess it was only a matter of time. I could at times feel tears, but they would never come. I think there are many reasons for this and I'll share them with you:<br /><br />1. I KNOW God is in control. I trust Him completely.<br />2. I don't have time to break down. I have to go from home to work to hospital to work to home to hospital to work....etc. <br />3. Everyone else in my family breaks down. I need to keep it together. For my mom. For her husband. For my sister. For my kids.<br />4. God tells me to worry about nothing and pray about everything. I'm trying to do that.<br /><br />Well, finally, I broke. And it didn't take much to bring it on. <br /><br />Yesterday at work, a co-worker, who will remain unamed, was in a bad mood and trying to beat a deadline. She had a phone call and I buzzed her office. She said, "Leave me alone!" Well, that was it. That did it. I started crying. Ok, I know what you are thinking.....drama! As I write I can't even believe that's what did it. But it did. I started crying and I couldn't quit. <br /><br />It was a long time until I went to sleep last night. Not because of my co-worker who snapped at me. I knew that wasn't personal. It was just because I was at the end of my rope. It was time. I needed to let out all that emotion. Each time I would fall asleep. I would soon wake up. I just couldn't get into a deep sleep. Finally at 2:30am I got up to let the dog out. I could hear her running around the bedroom. When I got up and headed for the door, I stepped barefooted into a pile of poop. Thanks Maggie! Geez. Can't a girl catch a break here?<br /><br />I finally fell asleep around 3:00 am. I didn't wake up until 11:00 am. Thank God I work in a place that is filled with loving and understanding women. I'm supposed to be there by 9:00 am. That just hasn't been happening lately. I called in and they told me to take my time.<br /><br />I am feeling much better tonight. I got it out. I'm not altogether with it, but I do feel better. <br /><br />God has provided. I'm not surprised. I am very grateful. Even though I have my times of weakness, He has been there to lift me back up. I trust Him fully. I could not do this without Him. Just when I think life is impossible, He reminds me that nothing is impossible for Him.<br /><br />Do you trust God? If you are having difficulty trusting God in your life right now, please do share with me. And if you have a story of how you trusted God in a difficult time, please share that too. Your stories inspire me.<br /><br />If you are interested in reading the latest update on my Mom, click here: <a href="http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/beckynunn1/journal">http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/beckynunn1/journal</a><br /><br />Blessings,<br /><br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-33615394684212912862009-07-09T16:45:00.004-04:002009-07-09T18:44:58.445-04:00Phil 4:6-7, Josh 1:9, Matt 6:34Don't worry. Pray. Receive peace. Be strong. Don't be afraid. The Lord is with you WHEREVER you go. Don't worry about tomorrow. Trust the Lord one day at a time.<br /><br />There ya go! Just summed up the 4 verses listed above. These 4 verses have more than carried me and kept me calm during this very stormy time of my life. The storms have been raging and they've been totally out of my control. Of course the greatest storm, <em>Hurricane Mama Has Cancer </em>has brought the most stress and strain to my already challenging life. Do you wonder what I mean by challenging? Well, take a peak at my today.<br /><br />On the way to the hospital today, Blake read me my morning devotion. It began with these words: "Stop worrying long enough to hear My voice." Well, he could've stopped right there. It's all I needed to hear. Just that reminder grounded me once again. I have been filled with peace (see previous post) during <em>Hurricane Mama Has Cancer</em> even though it's been everything but peaceful! Well, maybe I haven't ben filled with peace the whole time, but in the past month I have. The Lord has provided. Don't know why I doubt, ever. Besides the trial with Mom, life in general has been quite busy and unpredictable.<br /><br />1. Get woken up by Dylan, my 12 yr old son, in severe pain. Fever 102. Ear swollen shut. (had to make an appt. to see doctor again. Then she sent him to ENT) Thank God Jeff could get him to his first appt and Jeff's mom got him to his 2nd.)<br />2. Go down stairs to make breakfast for the 8 kids sleeping in my house. On the way down, Becca, my niece, is looking pretty green. I said, "are you ok?" She said, "I think I'm going to throw up." And she did. After that she said she felt fine. Lovely.<br />3. Needed to get the kids (who were well) up to the hospital to see Mom before surgery. We took 2 cars because I was going to be staying at the hospital all day and night. Jeff and the kids visited and then left around 11. Jeff had to go back home and get Dylan for his ear appt. (see #1)<br />4. Mom was in her room until 12:30. Before she left for pre op, I prayed with her. She kept telling us all how much she loved us. She had tears in her eyes.<br />5. Denise got to the hospital right before Mom left. She and I went to the chapel. It was quiet and peaceful. We talked then prayed. I am still filled with peace. My Father has given that to me. I just love Him so much.<br />6. 6 hours later, still in the waiting room. My sister, Tricia is here too and my stepfather, Bud. Denise just left and Donna is on her way. I have such great friends. The surgery should last about 3 more hours.<br />7. Now I'm writing this blogpost as I wait.<br /><br />If you are struggling with peace in your life in the midst of your uncontrollable circumstances, take a look at the 3 passages of Scripture I've referred to here. God is so very good. I love that He cares so much and I'm thankful He's given me the calm in the storm. I am only looking at this moment. I'm not looking ahead. I'm trusting Him for today. That mentality is working quite well. <br /><br />I'll sign off here for now. Gotta tweet, FB, and check my email. Obsessive? Maybe. Good for passing time in the waiting room? Definitely.<br /><br />Love to all my friends. Love y'all to pieces!<br />Love,<br /><br /><br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-60310067733768921752009-07-08T00:26:00.003-04:002009-07-08T00:55:27.229-04:00I Am Humbled and HonoredI wasn't expecting to blog about this tonight. I was hoping to blog about Philippians 4:6-7. I've turned over my worries to prayers and truly God has replaced my fears with peace. I can't explain it, but I have the peace which surpasses all understanding. And I wanted to share that with my readers tonight. <br /><br />Even though, I still have peace, my evening went much different than I expected.<br /><br />I am here at the hospital with my Mom tonight. It's my turn to spend the night with her. Me and my sister are staying every other night. My Mom's journey has not gone how I would have wanted it to go, but we have found bright spots along the way. My Mom has had 5 surgeries in the past 3 weeks. There have been set backs. But I've managed to remain calm. I trust God. I put the situation in His Hands.<br /><br />Tonight I was challenged. My Mom was sore and chaffed. I washed her full body. As I washed, she cried. She said, "No daughter should ever have to do this." However, I was honored to wash my mother. As I wiped the warm cloth over her body, I felt the love of Jesus saying, "I made this woman and I want her to feel clean. Thank you for washing her." It was my pleasure to wash her.<br /><br />A little while later, an odor took over the room. Mom's colostomy bag had burst. Her linens and gown were soiled. She was embarrassed. I called for the nurse. 2 nurses came. They tended to Mom with care and allowed her to keep her dignity. I was so appreciative of that. They cleaned her up, changed her gown and sheets, and told her that everything was ok. They took their time in changing her bag, cleaning her up, and making her feel human and normal. <br /><br />Yes, I have a peace that surpasses understanding, but I have to be honest. I hate what my Mom is going through. I hate it. I have never gone through anything like this in my life. I don't like that staying in the hospital almost feels normal. I don't like that I miss my family and our suburban lifestyle. I don't like that my Mom doesn't know what tomorrow will bring. <br /><br />But God.<br /><br />But God.<br /><br />But God picked me. He picked me to have the honor to wash my Mom. He picked me to be humbled enough to clean her up. He picked me to have the calm and strength to be there for her. He picked me to have the priviledge to give back a little of what she's given to me over the years. And I am honored and humbled.<br /><br />God is enough. I couldn't do what I'm doing, feel how I'm feeling, or get through what I am going through without Him. I have peace. And that is only from God.<br /><br />Many Blessings and Much Love,<br /><br /><em><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong>Melissa</strong></span></em><br /><br />****Mom has another surgery on Thursday, July 9th. Thank you for your prayers.MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com32tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-53647005522734950482009-07-01T22:12:00.006-04:002009-07-01T23:24:51.235-04:00The Beach is TherapeuticIt is!!!! I've been here since Saturday, June 27th. Ahhh. From the moment I saw the surf and took a whif of the salty air, I was relaxed.<br /><br /><br /><br />I'm with my husband's family. His parents. His grandmothers. His aunt. My children. What a blessing. As I watch all the interaction, I am just so thankful. We have age 7-91 here. How cool is that?<br /><br /><br /><br />My family is great, but we have divorce on so many sides. We could never do a family beach trip involving so many generations. We have other great times, but a trip with 4 generations present will not happen on my side. I have been very observant on this trip. And I feel extremely blessed. I'm watching my family.....the interaction between the great grands and the grand kids. It's amazing. It's a blessing. I look at each one and think, "God created each one of these beautiful human beings for a purpose. And here they are together." I look at Hayley Grace, who is only 7, and watch her hold hands with her 86 year old great grandmother. It brings tears to my eyes. I hope I'm holding my great grand daughter's hand when I'm 86.<br /><br /><br /><br />For the 1st 3 days here I literally, stayed in a beach surf chair during the day and just hung out with the family at night. Every day, I sat in a low seated beach chair where the water could wash up and cool me off. I read 2 books those 3 days. (A Bend in the Road and The Shack) "The Shack" overwhelmed me. In a good way. It has caused me to just talk to God nonstop. I love Him and I feel closer to Him. It is a must read in my opinion.<br /><br /><br /><br />Before I came to the beach, I had been spending most nights at the hospital with my Mom. It was hard for me to leave her and come here. I felt a little guilty. Tricia, my sister, is now staying with Mom at night. Because she is here, I can be at the beach with my family. And oh, how I needed this.<br /><br /><br /><br />We have celebrated 3 birthdays on this trip. Hayden turned 14 on June 29th. Big Granny turned 86 on July 1st. And Dylan turns 12 on July 2nd. Lots of cake, lots of celebration, lots of memories. Lots of treasures.<br /><br /><br /><br />I feel like I have been to therapy, only therapy never felt so good. I needed this trip.<br /><br /><br /><br />Tomorrow brings another day of surf, sand, wind, and relaxation. I hope to be able to relax and maybe even read another book before returning to reality!<br /><br /><br /><br />Thank you for your prayers and love. Mom is still holding on.<br /><br /><br /><br />Much Love,<br /><br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-14378941013343601602009-06-29T21:44:00.002-04:002009-06-29T22:56:36.949-04:00EmotionalI was looking for a word to describe me lately. Emotional is all I could come up with. I have experienced so many emotions over the past 2-3 weeks, I feel like I could've been 15 different people. But also though, I feel like I haven't felt at all. I know that makes no sense. But much of the time I've felt numb. And the numbness has been a gift from God. At times I think if I could've "felt" what I was really feeling, I would be a basket case. Maybe gone over the edge.<br /><br />I have not blogged in quite some time. The last time I blogged my Mom was getting ready to go into the hospital. She's now been in there for 1 and 1/2 weeks and will probably be there for another couple weeks. She had major surgery, the first of it's kind. And it was successful. But there is recovery and rehab. But when it's all said and done, this cancer is gone and there will be just the lung cancer to deal with.<br /><br />But let me say this. Seeing my Mom go through so much has been excruciating on me. I can't take it, yet I can. This woman who I love is suffering. She's too young. And she blames herself. She keeps apologizing to me. It kills me. But I put up a front. I wear a mask to cover the pain. I think my Mom does too. <br /><br />I'm at the beach now. After staying in the hospital 6 nights with Mom, I was given the blessing of a break. Friends and family are stepping up to help out. My sister is here from Dallas, TX. My mother in law has stayed with my Mom for 2 nights. Donna is keeping all the dogs (mine and Mom's). Denise has volunteered to stay with Mom one night. Cindy stayed with Mom last night. Aunt Gloria stayed on Sat. I'm so thankful for all of them. I've been at the beach for 2 days now. I have to admit, I felt guilty for coming. But I also know I was worn out and almost ready to crack. The break is good and I'm so thankful for all of the help. I'm really glad to have my sister here. <br /><br />So, what are my emotions right now? Well, I went on a walk today. Down the beach in the middle of the day. I was thinking about Mom. I was thinking about life. I was thinking about losing my Mom. I was thinking about the loss of life. I got really sad for the first time. My breathing got heavy. I was somewhat angry for having to deal with this. But I also understand that the Master has a plan. I returned to peace. <br /><br />I just started reading "The Shack" today. I'm half way through it and I can't wait to read the rest. I can tell it's life changing. There are so many lines I've highlighted in the book already that I plan to write about later. <br /><br />I don't really know what I've written thus far. Hope it made some sense. Today is my 2nd child's birthday. He is 14. Hayden is 14. God bless him. And I thank God for him. <br /><br />Now I must go. I am watching "wrastlin" with my husband's grandmothers. What a hoot. One is 87 and the other 92. This time with them is priceless! I can't quit laughing! We have 4 generations right here. Watchin' "wrastlin". Lovely!<br /><br />Blessings,<br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-79729594722650994602009-06-17T21:29:00.008-04:002009-06-18T14:12:46.571-04:00Pray For Mom!To anyone who reads this,My Mom is having major surgery at 7:30 am, Thursday, June 18, 2009. She is having a colostomy and hopefully the surgeon will be able to remove all the cancer in that area. Pray for that please!<br /><br />She still has lung cancer, but if this other cancer can be controlled, she can atleast live without pain. I'll be updating all day tomorrow on the blogs, FaceBook ( <a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/melissa.r.taylor?ref=profile">http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/melissa.r.taylor?ref=profile</a> ), Twitter ( <a href="http://twitter.com/MelissaRTaylor">http://twitter.com/MelissaRTaylor</a> ) , and my mom's CaringBridge site ( <a href="http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/beckynunn1/journal">http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/beckynunn1/journal</a> ).<br /><br />Thank you for your prayers.<br /><br />Love,<br /><br /><span style="font-size:180%;"><em><strong>Melissa</strong></em> </span><br /><p><span style="font-size:180%;"></span></p><p><strong><span style="color:#660000;">****Edit, Thurs, June 18th, 2:03 pm EST</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color:#660000;">I updated Mom's CaringBridge site with the details from her surgery. Click the CaringBridge link above if you want details. And thank you from the bottom of my heart for your prayers. I was lifted by them. Out of this trial, for me, the biggest blessing has come in the form of prayers by friends, co-workers (who are also friends), and people I've never even met before (like many of you) who I also consider friends. Thank you so much! If I could, I'd hug you all real big right now!</span></strong></p>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3470814598789137396.post-47766883828643779592009-06-16T03:00:00.002-04:002009-06-16T09:02:05.485-04:00Devotion running today...I have a devotion running today. It's called "Once...Always." You can check it out here: <a href="http://proverbs31devotions.blogspot.com/2009/06/once-always.html">http://proverbs31devotions.blogspot.com/2009/06/once-always.html</a> . Then read my follow up on my other blog, <a href="http://beautifulp31.blogspot.com/2009/06/who-are-you.html">http://beautifulp31.blogspot.com/2009/06/who-are-you.html</a>. I'd love to hear your comments and thoughts.<br /><br />Today I am still basking in the wonderful time I had at my Mom's. She was in a great mood and little pain. What a blessing! Me and kids visited. My friend, Donna, and her daughter, Sydney, came too. My mom's hubby, Bud, cooked hamburgers on the grill. We had watermelon. We had a great time together. Her surgery is this Thursday. Please keep her in your prayers.<br /><br />Thanks a bunch!<br />Love,<br /><br /><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">Melissa</span></strong></em>MelissaTaylor.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12432414882855409285noreply@blogger.com2